How do we compare life while we are single and while we are someone's unofficially or officially?
When we are single we can do practically whatever we like, being friends with whoever we want, no commitment to anyone, nobody bother what time will you be back and whatsoever.
BUT
Feeling lonely, no company, no people to manja lebih (HAHA), lagi? I think that's it.
When we're taken, being someone's gf/bf will make you feel restiricted. You can't simply go out, everything have to be reported, cannot make friends randomly (especially the opposite sex from you), have to combine decisions, and etc etc.
Benefits? Ada clingy buddy (unlucky me tak berapa clingy, my bffs are way clingier), boleh manja lebih with your bf/gf, lagi? I can't think because now I'm being overwhelmed seeing my sister's marriage problems, a little affects me not to get married in the first place.
Post ni sangat bertentangan dengan my BFF's post entitled "Perkahwinan", sorry for letting you refer to Aiman's post =)
Jauh di lubuk hati, I wanted to get married. In fact nak kahwin awal, unfortunately not fated that way. Unexpectedly my closest cousin getting married next month, aged 23 and all happen in a sudden. He came up to us somewhere in April telling everyone that he wants to get maarried, everyone thought it was a joke until he came back and confirmed to us on the 18th of May 2011 that we can start booking our flight ticket to KK Sabah.
Shocked! Stunned! Segala macam perasaan lah, but I felt jealous sebab study pun belum habis daa! But the fear seeing people's marriage broken also haunting me, looong sigh~
How do we know that our match-made-in-heaven partner would not make us down till like forever? I asked that to my sister today, how perfect things will be if we can see the future before we make a mistake in deciding. The conclusion is, no matter how wise you are there will still be obstacles await you prepared by God for you to grow. Accept it and face it, you can do it!
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